Why Love Report Cards Might Be the Best Relationship Assessment Ever Created
- Anthony Clark
- Jul 16
- 4 min read
Updated: Aug 23
Let’s be real—most relationship assessments are either too vague to be useful or so clinical that they overwhelm you before you even begin.
They might give you a score, but they don’t show you how to grow. They might identify a problem, but they leave you stuck with no clear path forward. That’s exactly why Love Report Cards exists.
We designed it to be simple, powerful, and transformative—whether you’re flying solo, dating, or deep in a long-term relationship.
And honestly? We believe it’s the best relationship assessment ever created. Here’s why:
✅ It Covers Every Relationship Challenge—Period
No matter what issues a couple is facing—trust issues, poor communication, sexual dissatisfaction, emotional distance—it all falls under at least one of the 10 Dimensions of Love.
These ten dimensions are the core needs in every romantic relationship:
Trust
Honesty
Consideration
Communication
Attitude
Attentiveness
Supportiveness
Physical Appearance
Romance
Sex
You don’t need a background in psychology to figure out where things are going wrong. One glance at the report card, and the truth becomes obvious.
✅ It’s Simple—but Not Shallow
Love Report Cards uses letter grades (A-F)—a format everyone understands. You grade your partner (or yourself, or someone you're dating) in each of the 10 dimensions. But then it goes deeper:
You’re asked why you gave that grade.
Then you’re asked what could be done to improve that grade.
It’s not just about scoring. It’s about reflecting, owning, and evolving. No other tool demands that level of honesty in such a gentle, accessible way.
✅ It Turns Emotion into Data
You get an overall relationship GPA, just like a school report card. That single number creates clarity: Is this relationship thriving or struggling?
Even better—you can track that grade over time. See progress. See patterns. See where the work needs to be done.
Most people float through relationships without any real feedback. Love Report Cards changes that—turning your love life into something you can measure, understand, and improve.
✅ It Shifts the Focus from Blame to Solutions
Traditional arguments are filled with blame: “You don’t listen!” “You never show me affection!”
With Love Report Cards, the conversation changes:
“I gave us a C in attentiveness. Here’s why…”
“To raise that grade, I’d love more eye contact or touch during the day.”
The drama is replaced by data and direction. It helps couples stop spinning in circles and start building forward.
✅ It Builds Emotional Intelligence—Fast
Every time you fill out a report card, you’re developing the skills that make love last:
Self-awareness
Empathy
Clarity
Emotional communication
You learn to speak your truth without attacking—and to listen without getting defensive.
That’s emotional intelligence in action. And it grows stronger the more you use it.
✅ It Works for Singles, Too
If you’re dating, Love Report Cards helps you vet potential partners with clarity. No more getting swept up by chemistry and missing the red flags.
Use it after a few dates or even mid-relationship to see:
Where are the strengths?
Where are the deal-breakers?
Are they truly meeting your needs—or just saying the right things?
It helps you stop choosing out of loneliness or fantasy and start choosing consciously.
✅ It Becomes a Love Practice
Love Report Cards isn’t just a one-time thing. It’s a habit. A rhythm. A weekly ritual.
Couples can challenge each other:
“Let’s see if we can raise our GPA this month.”
Singles can use it to refine their standards:
“I’ve dated three people this year. Who actually got the highest score?”
Like a fitness tracker for your heart, it keeps you honest, focused, and growing.
✅ Private. Honest. Powerful.
You don’t have to go to therapy. You don’t have to involve anyone else. You just sit down, take 10-15 minutes, and answer the questions.
You can share it with your partner or keep it private. You can reflect on yourself or assess someone else. The power is in your hands—and that makes it safe, flexible, and real.
🧠 Who Created Love Report Cards, "The Best Relationship Assessment"?
Love Report Cards was created by The Amazing Clarks—Anthony and Melanie Clark—award-winning relationship coaches, authors, and founders of the internationally respected Conscious Love Movement.
They’ve been happily together for 34 years, and professionally coaching couples for over 24 years.
Their work has impacted thousands of people around the world, from celebrities and CEOs to everyday singles and couples looking for real answers.
After decades of helping clients identify patterns, heal communication breakdowns, and reignite intimacy,
The Clarks designed Love Report Cards to do what most assessments don’t:
Get straight to the truth, fast—and give you the power to change it.
Simple, honest, and deeply transformative, Love Report Cards is a reflection of their mission:
To help people build extraordinary love using tools that actually work.
If you’re ready to get real about love, you couldn’t be in better hands.
Final Word
Love Report Cards isn’t just another relationship tool. It’s a mirror that shows you what’s really going on.
It’s a conversation starter that shifts blame into breakthrough.
It’s a GPS for love that helps you track where you are and where you want to go.
We don’t just believe it’s the best relationship assessment ever—we’ve seen it change lives.
If you’re ready to stop guessing and start growing, Love Report Cards is your next step.
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